Harriet Belle Ringen, known as Hattie, was
born in 1873 in St.Louis, Missouri.
Hattie was the child of German immigrant John Ringen and his wife, also
of German descent, Louisa Heinzelman.
Hattie's father fought in the civil war, and made his wealth as a
manufacturer and retailer of stoves.
John Ringen worked hard for his family, hard enough to send his
precocious 17 year-old daughter to finishing school for girls from upper class families in St.Charles,
Missouri. From 1889 to 1891, Hattie attended The
Lindenwood School for Girls, the second oldest higher-education
institution west of the Mississippi.
Sometimes you come across something that
brings a person from your past alive to you, and helps you understand who they really were. This is the case with Hattie. She left a journal from her time at
Lindenwood. I received the journal with
a bag of other family memorabilia. It
was days before I could finally open the journal up to have a look. What was inside was extraordinary. Indeed, you could say
that it was this journal that encouraged me to share my family history through
a blog. You see, Hattie didn’t just
write a journal of memories, stories and meanderings, she wrote the entire
journal in verse – in poetry!
Thanksgiving at Lindenwood 1889 |
While Hattie was enjoying her education in
1890, Walter C. Allison was learning the merchant trade in New Brunswick at the
foot of his father Joseph. As fate would
have it, Walter’s health began to fail in 1897, and his physicians sent him to Colorado. It was
felt that the high altitude would help clear his lungs. Records don't explain what Hattie was doing in
Colorado, but sources are all in agreement that it was there that she met
Walter. You can imagine that a young and
talented merchant (by all accounts) and the child of a successful manufacturer
and marketer of stoves would find plenty in common.
They were married in 1900 and settled in Denver.
While there, Hattie partook in any social events that treasured
the arts. On Christmas Day Hattie would
deliver “good cheer and practical gifts” to the poor.
Hattie and Walter’s first child was Helen
Ringen Allison (later married to James V. Russel). Walter worked in real estate in Colorado and
apparently felt that his ventures there could translate well to the life he
left behind in Saint John, New Brunswick.
He moved his young family back and settled in.
Hattie reportedly struggled with poor health after moving to Saint John. Her stoic nature, however, ensured that she maintained her sunny disposition and appreciation for the arts in her new life in Canada. In 1910, Joseph Ringen Allison was born. This certainly should have been a happy occasion. Tragically, ten days after Joseph was born, Hattie suddenly and unexpectedly died. The newspaper reports that Hattie seemed to have been recovering from an illness following the birth, and “there was no thought of danger”, but she suddenly began to “sink rapidly” at 2:30 on a Saturday afternoon, and “within minutes” was dead.
Sometimes you read a newspaper report of a
death and you hear facts, times, dates and names. This article emphasized what I had gleaned
from other records of Hattie's past. The doctor
attending her said that “in all his practice he had never found more of
sunshine in a sick room.” She was remembered as a “devoted wife and
mother, and of a bright and sunny disposition.”
Neither Joseph nor Helen really knew their
exuberant, talented mother. She died at 37,
mother of two young children, wife of a well-to-do merchant, and daughter of a
self-made German-American. She was a poet, patron of the arts, philanthropist, and inspiration for future
generations.
Here is a poem from the journal of Hattie
B. Ringen, Lindenwood School for Girls, St.Charles, Missouri, 1890. This particular entry highlights Hattie’s
humour and rebellious nature. I had to
look up the book to which she refers. I
identify it at the end, so you can guffaw as I did when I discovered what it
was about. Enjoy!
A Tale of Woe
Some
elevating literature
Miss
Jess of the city did send
To
the O.C. crowd of Lindenwood
Thinking
their ways to mend.
The
book was received and read by each one
From
Clara down to Kate
Then
came the dreadful after-thought
What
would be their fate
If
the faculty should discover
They’d
devoured the contents of that cover
The
envious Maude as usual
Planning to do some harm
Told
Miss Sheldon of the fact
Then came the Alarm –
That
Miss Sheldon knew the book was in school
And
intended to know who had it
So
we concluded the best thing to do
Was
to go back of the barn and burn it
As
yet I have not told the name
Of
this wonderful book of worldwide fame
It
was Kreutzer Sonata* and all the rage
And
pray, why should we not read a page
Well
Wednesday our Jess with the book in her blouse
Carefully
stepping stalked out of the house
The
rest of us followed with matches and tears
For
the loss of the object that caused us such fears
In
a solemn procession, we filed one by one
To
the graveyard where the deed was done
First
we built a funeral pile
And
laid the book upon it
There
without a shadow of smile
We
set the fire to it
Alas!
Alas! Deal old Kreutzer
Farewell
Farewell Ah Me –
For
all ‘twas saved of you glorious book
Was
a burnt page to remember thee
Thus
ends the sad sad story
And
my advice to you dear friend
Is
remember the “Golden Rule”
* The Kreutzer Sonata, by the way, is a Tolstoy
novella published in 1889. It is reportedly an argument for the ideal of sexual
abstinence and against “carnal love”, and the protagonist in the book kills his wife in the end in a jealous rage. It’s more complicated than that, of course, but the book seems to have brought out the latent feminist in our
heroine Hattie and her friends. The
Golden Rule reference ("do unto others") in relation to this book is hilarious: it is pretty clear what she is wishing on
Tolstoy…
Sources:
Lindenwood archives (photos)
Hattie B. Ringen journal 1890
newspaper clippings (from family scrapbook)
Census (various)
Kreutzer Sonata article from Wikipedia
Sources:
Lindenwood archives (photos)
Hattie B. Ringen journal 1890
newspaper clippings (from family scrapbook)
Census (various)
Kreutzer Sonata article from Wikipedia
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